mm/mmap: change detached vma locking scheme

Don't set the lock to the mm lock so that the detached VMA tree does not
complain about being unlocked when the mmap_lock is dropped prior to
freeing the tree.

Introduce mt_on_stack() for setting the external lock to NULL only when
LOCKDEP is used.

Move the destroying of the detached tree outside the mmap lock all
together.

Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20230719183142.ktgcmuj2pnlr3h3s@revolver


Signed-off-by: Liam R. Howlett <Liam.Howlett@oracle.com>
Cc: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>
Cc: Oliver Sang <oliver.sang@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>