keep iocb_flags() result cached in struct file

* calculate at the time we set FMODE_OPENED (do_dentry_open() for normal
opens, alloc_file() for pipe()/socket()/etc.)
* update when handling F_SETFL
* keep in a new field - file->f_iocb_flags; since that thing is needed only
before the refcount reaches zero, we can put it into the same anon union
where ->f_rcuhead and ->f_llist live - those are used only after refcount
reaches zero.

Reviewed-by: Christian Brauner (Microsoft) <brauner@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>