net/netfilter/nf_conntrack_core: Fix net_conntrack_lock()

As we want to remove spin_unlock_wait() and replace it with explicit
spin_lock()/spin_unlock() calls, we can use this to simplify the
locking.

In addition:
- Reading nf_conntrack_locks_all needs ACQUIRE memory ordering.
- The new code avoids the backwards loop.

Only slightly tested, I did not manage to trigger calls to
nf_conntrack_all_lock().

V2: With improved comments, to clearly show how the barriers
    pair.

Fixes: b16c2919 ("netfilter: nf_conntrack: use safer way to lock all buckets")
Signed-off-by: Manfred Spraul <manfred@colorfullife.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org>
Cc: Alan Stern <stern@rowland.harvard.edu>
Cc: Sasha Levin <sasha.levin@oracle.com>
Cc: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>
Cc: netfilter-devel@vger.kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Paul E. McKenney <paulmck@linux.vnet.ibm.com>