bpf: Add support for writing to nf_conn:mark

Support direct writes to nf_conn:mark from TC and XDP prog types. This
is useful when applications want to store per-connection metadata. This
is also particularly useful for applications that run both bpf and
iptables/nftables because the latter can trivially access this metadata.

One example use case would be if a bpf prog is responsible for advanced
packet classification and iptables/nftables is later used for routing
due to pre-existing/legacy code.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Xu <dxu@dxuuu.xyz>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/ebca06dea366e3e7e861c12f375a548cc4c61108.1662568410.git.dxu@dxuuu.xyz


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>