net/smc: De-tangle ism and smc device initialization

The struct device for ISM devices was part of struct smcd_dev. Move to
struct ism_dev, provide a new API call in struct smcd_ops, and convert
existing SMCD code accordingly.
Furthermore, remove struct smcd_dev from struct ism_dev.
This is the final part of a bigger overhaul of the interfaces between SMC
and ISM.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Raspl <raspl@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Karcher <jaka@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Wenjia Zhang <wenjia@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>