RDMA/counter: Add "auto" configuration mode support

In auto mode all QPs belong to one category are bind automatically to a
single counter set. Currently only "qp type" is supported.

In this mode the qp counter is set in RST2INIT modification, and when a qp
is destroyed the counter is unbound.

Signed-off-by: Mark Zhang <markz@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Majd Dibbiny <majd@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>