spi: add devm_spi_optimize_message() helper

This adds a new helper function devm_spi_optimize_message() that
automatically registers spi_unoptimize_message() to be called
when the device is removed.

Signed-off-by: David Lechner <dlechner@baylibre.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20240621-devm_spi_optimize_message-v1-2-3f9dcba6e95e@baylibre.com


Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>